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Planned negligence…

I was privileged to attend the Willow Creek Leadership Summit again this year.  Actually it was at a satellite location in Springfield, Missouri.   This is always a spiritually refreshing time.  God speaks through the speakers and challenges us in fresh ways.  I find that it is so important that as a pastor I have times away when I am fed, challenged, directed and encouraged by the Lord.  It is easy to let the tyranny of the urgent discourage these times away, but they are of utmost importance.  Jesus modeled times of planned negligence for the sake of renewal and time with the Father.  I would be terribly unwise and arrogant to presume that I don’t need the same and more.

For me there were three favorite elements of this conference.  First God used multiple speakers to confirm some areas that He has been leading me into.  I deeply appreciate the confirmation God provides through His Spirit and his people.  The second was a speaker named Wess Stafford.  Wess is the President and CEO of Compassion International.  His testimony of God’s faithfulness to use our brokenness was very powerful.  I am praying and looking for ways to use his talk with our church.  Finally I enjoyed a talk by Gary Hamel.  Gary is the Director of Management Innovation Lab and a Visiting Professor at the London Business School.  He spoke on Managing Differently Now.   It was a wonderful dialogue on change and why it is essential that we sometimes change.   Not change our core beliefs or Biblical foundation, but change our methods and systems for accomplishing our unchanging purpose.  When the world around us is continually changing, lately at an ever increasing rate, and the church’s approach to reaching this world does not change we are ever increasing risk of becoming irrelevant to most of our world.  It was both a challenging and encouraging talk.  I look forward to sharing this with leaders in the church to encourage additional dialogue about the importance of appropriate change for the sake of reaching our dying world.  Certainly and interesting and difficult subject.

All in all it was an excellent conference that God has used in my heart and life.  I pray God continues to speak to me and guide in this journey of being a pastor.  If God doesn’t lead me, I really don’t want to take the journey.

Al

Future Faith – thoughts from my bride

I woke up this morning in prayer as I do most mornings.

Although this morning came with passion for a Future of Faith. Looking out to future generations of faith.

Years ago when Al and I were newlyweds and fresh in the Lord together, in our church there were no couples our age. There were older people who had raised their children in church and had prayers that one day their children would return to the church to their faith, and to the Lord.

I thought often of God’s promise in his words, “Raise your children up in the way of the Lord and they will not depart from it.”

Many years have passed and we find ourselves at the end of the journey of “raising our children in the way of the Lord.” They did not depart from the Lord. And now they our on their own journey of raising their children in the way of the Lord.

Passing our faith on in our families is priority in our journey in Christ. Our daughters were preachers-kids. My constant prayer was that they would find a very close intimate relationship with their Lord and savior. They did.

Recently our younger daughter and her husband moved to the small community of Republic outside of Springfield, Mo. They had been living in Springfield and were attending the 1st Baptist Church of Republic, where they had found lots of couples their age that they enjoyed the worship and fellowship in that church. They joined this church and bought a home there in the community.

Not long after they become actively involved in the ministry of this church, my daughter found herself sitting beside the pastor’s daughter in a Baptist type meeting such as my daughter had never experienced in her fathers ministry. Details were never brought to the surface to anyone’s understanding, toward the Pastor. After too much stress and lack of constructive communication, the whole church staff resigned in one Sunday evening. The Pastor of youth, the minister of children, the worship minister and the Pastor.

When this Pastor came to this church, he was asked to minister in a way that he would bring young couples into the church. He did bring many young couples in to the church. They are all gone now. Now there is a new church in Republic full of young couples and also older people who have a passion for future generations in faith. In their 3rd Sunday of worship together they were 127 in attendance. Worshiping in joy and passion of raising their children up in the way of the Lord.

The 1st Baptist church of Republic recently displayed on their church sign “old fashioned music and preaching.” My question is, do they love their traditions, heritage and hymn books more than they love the Lord or God’s plan for future generation of faith?

I am a Pastors wife that God has given an extreme passion for our young adults and families in my church of 1st Baptist Pea Ridge. I am so thankful for the ministry in our church that promotes the growth of young families and the future of their children. As I become older and hopefully more mature in the Lord, my personal prayer is that I am a part of God’s ministry in a current world. I love seeing the passion of younger people worship with all their hearts in the songs of their time period more than my songs of old, because I see Christ alive in their hearts. And our Faith marches on into the future as God has purposed it to do.

In the fly leaves of my Bible I have what I call my Hall of Faith. My mentors who have inspired me with their faith. Elders of my life who touched me in a way that has formed my inner spiritual character.

Edith Burling taught me simple faith and trust and keeping a single focus on the love for God and all his people.

Maxine Lee reconfirmed the importance of loving the church, God had placed me in. She said this church needs a lot of love. “Love never fails.”

Maxine Richardson showed me faith in action, her presence, her hospitality, her servant’s heart will forever change who I am in Christ daily- thank you so much Maxine.

Maxine Morrison’s great joy and sense of humor, a spinster retired school teacher, she read the Bible through on an average of 6-7 times a year.

Edith Laramore’s caring for others, making sure the Pastor knew of ministering needs of everyone in the church, networking fellowship to care for one another’s needs. On her dying bed as I held her hand a few days before she passed away she expressed her understanding of the churches need to minister to a current world, in new ways.

There are more in my personal Hall of Faith and I am sure more to be added. It has been important for me to remember those who God used in the building of his kingdom and the future of an on going faith.

Please join me in these prayers for our church:

Truth prevails over the darkness of dissention and gossip.

God helps us to see a world in need of a savoir as more important than ourselves and our traditions.

Elders who are willing to Love and affirm young families in our church, and also pray that because we have a heart for future generations of faith, God will increase our ministry.

Protection for the Pastors and all those called by God to lead the Church.

A closing thought:

When I think back about the church that was waiting to see the children who were raised in the Lord to return. Was it the staleness and stagnant traditions of their perceived ideas of church that they raised their children up in, rather than really raising them up in the way of the Lord?

The church split my daughter has gone through left parents behind in the ole church with their good ole fashioned religion and a very small group of ole people who cling to their traditions. Their children, as young adult are willing to move on into the future ministry of new generations.

I want to be one of the ole people that wrap my arms around them and cheer them on, rejoicing in worship with them and hopefully mentoring as God calls me.

–Kim

April 22 Reading: 1 Sam 25-26; Ps 63; Matt 9

Scripture:  Psalms 63:7 (NIV) 7 Because you are my help, I sing in the shadow of your wings.

Observations:  How many times does the Scripture talk about God being our help?  Ever present, the one we run to, our place of protection, our refuge in time of trouble, our strong tower…  Because of His protection we can sing in times of trouble – not because we like trouble, but because in the battle He is our shelter & strength.  A song in my heart while under attack – that’s it!

 

Application:  I need to continually run to my shelter.  I must abide in the shelter & shadow of His wings!  He is my shelter – strength & my song.  I will run to Him daily, especially in times of trouble.

 

Prayer:  Father, help me always run to you!  Help me seek your shelter.  I can’t fight this on my own.  I can’t keep a song in my heart on my own.  I will rest in this shelter, Lord.  Amen!

April 21 Reading: 1 Samuel 24; 1 Chr 8; Ps 57-58; Mt 8

I confess that I really wanted to write on Psalm 57:1 or 57:4, but it seems God spoke from this passage more – and wanted me thinking in this direction…

Scripture:  Matthew 8:21-22 (NIV) 21 Another disciple said to him, “Lord, first let me go and bury my father.” 22 But Jesus told him, “Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead.”

Observations:  Wow!  Jesus needed to read “How To Win Friends and Influence People.”  Someone needs to tell Him that he can be gentle and challenge people.  That’s cold.  Let the dead bury dead.  It seems that Jesus didn’t fear challenging people to follow Him with abandon.  Are you in or are you out?  Decide.  Are you serious about following Jesus or is it a convenience issue?

I find myself challenging people to take the next step toward becoming that fully devoted follower of Christ.  Sure a journey begins with one step, but is my challenge weak?  I know, I’m not Jesus, so I should be careful.  But still, the verse strikes me today.

 

Application:  First, it occurs to me that I need to be sure that I am following Jesus with abandon.  Am I completely His?  Second, I need to be sure I’m not watering down the cost of discipleship.  Following Jesus is supposed to COST!  God forbid that I paint something else.

 

Prayer:  Father, help me continually check my level of surrender.  Am I sold out to you?  Also, help me challenge people to a complete surrender to you.  May I never soft sell being a disciple!  Amen.

 

April 17-19 posts to come next week…

I’m sorry to say that this week developed into something that left me without time & heart to post my journal entries.  I hope to catch them up next week.  Thanks for your patience. 

1 Samuel 3-5; Psalm 77; 2 Cor. 8

I know it seems my selected verse always comes from the New Testament.  There have been some amazing OT passages recently, especially today as I read again about Samuel.  However it seems again that what spoke to me the most was in 2 Corinthians.

Scripture:  2 Corinthians 8:5  And they did not do as we expected, but they gave themselves first to the Lord and then to us in keeping with God’s will.

Observations:  I suspect that what we see in this verse is always going to be the case.  In the Christian life and experience, if I get first things first, everything else will work.  The passage deals with financial giving, but the principle deals with every detail of my Christian experience.  They gave themselves first to the Lord and then…  If I don’t get this right, pretty much nothing else will work.  If I am having trouble in any area of my walk with God, it would be appropiate to back track to here and see that everything is right.  Am I completely surrendered to the Lord?  Do I see my life as my own or the Lord’s?  When I am intentionally living a life of complete abandon, complete surrender to my God, the rest just works.

Application:  I need to get first things first.  I need to continually be certain that I am completely surrendered to my Lord.  I need to be a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God.  My life is not my own.  Any time I find myself struggling in some area of my walk with God, I must go back and deal with the surrender/ownership issue!

Prayer:  Father, help me walk daily surrendered to You.  Remind me that my life is not my own.  Help me see the connection between my surrender and my walk.  You are the Lord and owner of all that I am.  Amen.