Life is a Journey

Thoughts on Life

Planned negligence…

I was privileged to attend the Willow Creek Leadership Summit again this year.  Actually it was at a satellite location in Springfield, Missouri.   This is always a spiritually refreshing time.  God speaks through the speakers and challenges us in fresh ways.  I find that it is so important that as a pastor I have times away when I am fed, challenged, directed and encouraged by the Lord.  It is easy to let the tyranny of the urgent discourage these times away, but they are of utmost importance.  Jesus modeled times of planned negligence for the sake of renewal and time with the Father.  I would be terribly unwise and arrogant to presume that I don’t need the same and more.

For me there were three favorite elements of this conference.  First God used multiple speakers to confirm some areas that He has been leading me into.  I deeply appreciate the confirmation God provides through His Spirit and his people.  The second was a speaker named Wess Stafford.  Wess is the President and CEO of Compassion International.  His testimony of God’s faithfulness to use our brokenness was very powerful.  I am praying and looking for ways to use his talk with our church.  Finally I enjoyed a talk by Gary Hamel.  Gary is the Director of Management Innovation Lab and a Visiting Professor at the London Business School.  He spoke on Managing Differently Now.   It was a wonderful dialogue on change and why it is essential that we sometimes change.   Not change our core beliefs or Biblical foundation, but change our methods and systems for accomplishing our unchanging purpose.  When the world around us is continually changing, lately at an ever increasing rate, and the church’s approach to reaching this world does not change we are ever increasing risk of becoming irrelevant to most of our world.  It was both a challenging and encouraging talk.  I look forward to sharing this with leaders in the church to encourage additional dialogue about the importance of appropriate change for the sake of reaching our dying world.  Certainly and interesting and difficult subject.

All in all it was an excellent conference that God has used in my heart and life.  I pray God continues to speak to me and guide in this journey of being a pastor.  If God doesn’t lead me, I really don’t want to take the journey.

Al

Future Faith – thoughts from my bride

I woke up this morning in prayer as I do most mornings.

Although this morning came with passion for a Future of Faith. Looking out to future generations of faith.

Years ago when Al and I were newlyweds and fresh in the Lord together, in our church there were no couples our age. There were older people who had raised their children in church and had prayers that one day their children would return to the church to their faith, and to the Lord.

I thought often of God’s promise in his words, “Raise your children up in the way of the Lord and they will not depart from it.”

Many years have passed and we find ourselves at the end of the journey of “raising our children in the way of the Lord.” They did not depart from the Lord. And now they our on their own journey of raising their children in the way of the Lord.

Passing our faith on in our families is priority in our journey in Christ. Our daughters were preachers-kids. My constant prayer was that they would find a very close intimate relationship with their Lord and savior. They did.

Recently our younger daughter and her husband moved to the small community of Republic outside of Springfield, Mo. They had been living in Springfield and were attending the 1st Baptist Church of Republic, where they had found lots of couples their age that they enjoyed the worship and fellowship in that church. They joined this church and bought a home there in the community.

Not long after they become actively involved in the ministry of this church, my daughter found herself sitting beside the pastor’s daughter in a Baptist type meeting such as my daughter had never experienced in her fathers ministry. Details were never brought to the surface to anyone’s understanding, toward the Pastor. After too much stress and lack of constructive communication, the whole church staff resigned in one Sunday evening. The Pastor of youth, the minister of children, the worship minister and the Pastor.

When this Pastor came to this church, he was asked to minister in a way that he would bring young couples into the church. He did bring many young couples in to the church. They are all gone now. Now there is a new church in Republic full of young couples and also older people who have a passion for future generations in faith. In their 3rd Sunday of worship together they were 127 in attendance. Worshiping in joy and passion of raising their children up in the way of the Lord.

The 1st Baptist church of Republic recently displayed on their church sign “old fashioned music and preaching.” My question is, do they love their traditions, heritage and hymn books more than they love the Lord or God’s plan for future generation of faith?

I am a Pastors wife that God has given an extreme passion for our young adults and families in my church of 1st Baptist Pea Ridge. I am so thankful for the ministry in our church that promotes the growth of young families and the future of their children. As I become older and hopefully more mature in the Lord, my personal prayer is that I am a part of God’s ministry in a current world. I love seeing the passion of younger people worship with all their hearts in the songs of their time period more than my songs of old, because I see Christ alive in their hearts. And our Faith marches on into the future as God has purposed it to do.

In the fly leaves of my Bible I have what I call my Hall of Faith. My mentors who have inspired me with their faith. Elders of my life who touched me in a way that has formed my inner spiritual character.

Edith Burling taught me simple faith and trust and keeping a single focus on the love for God and all his people.

Maxine Lee reconfirmed the importance of loving the church, God had placed me in. She said this church needs a lot of love. “Love never fails.”

Maxine Richardson showed me faith in action, her presence, her hospitality, her servant’s heart will forever change who I am in Christ daily- thank you so much Maxine.

Maxine Morrison’s great joy and sense of humor, a spinster retired school teacher, she read the Bible through on an average of 6-7 times a year.

Edith Laramore’s caring for others, making sure the Pastor knew of ministering needs of everyone in the church, networking fellowship to care for one another’s needs. On her dying bed as I held her hand a few days before she passed away she expressed her understanding of the churches need to minister to a current world, in new ways.

There are more in my personal Hall of Faith and I am sure more to be added. It has been important for me to remember those who God used in the building of his kingdom and the future of an on going faith.

Please join me in these prayers for our church:

Truth prevails over the darkness of dissention and gossip.

God helps us to see a world in need of a savoir as more important than ourselves and our traditions.

Elders who are willing to Love and affirm young families in our church, and also pray that because we have a heart for future generations of faith, God will increase our ministry.

Protection for the Pastors and all those called by God to lead the Church.

A closing thought:

When I think back about the church that was waiting to see the children who were raised in the Lord to return. Was it the staleness and stagnant traditions of their perceived ideas of church that they raised their children up in, rather than really raising them up in the way of the Lord?

The church split my daughter has gone through left parents behind in the ole church with their good ole fashioned religion and a very small group of ole people who cling to their traditions. Their children, as young adult are willing to move on into the future ministry of new generations.

I want to be one of the ole people that wrap my arms around them and cheer them on, rejoicing in worship with them and hopefully mentoring as God calls me.

–Kim

May 3 Reading: 2 Samuel 7; 1 Chronicles 17; Psalm 2; Matthew 20

 

 

 

Scripture: Matthew 20:12 These men who were hired last worked only one hour, they said, and you have made them equal to us who have borne the burden of the work and the heat of the day.

Observations: This is interesting – first, these men agreed to work for a day’s wages. So the problem is not that they were cheated, but that those who started later, even as late as one hour before day’s end, were paid the same. That doesn’t really seem fair. Well, that’s not fair, is it? After all, they have borne the burden, the majority of the work! Sounds familiar, somewhat like the older brother in Luke 15. No fair, Father! I served/slaved all these years! Grace is seriously unfair!

Application: I need to put away my scorecard, my measuring tape, my time clock and my rulebook. God promises grace – unmerited gifts – riches beyond my imagination – mercy, not justice. Shall I sit in His grace and compare?

Prayer: Father, help me see your amazing grace for just what it is. Help me recover from wanting to keep score. Be gracious to me & my brother – neither of us deserve it! Amen!

May 2 Reading: 1 Chronicles 16; Psalm 106; Matthew 19

 

 

 

Scripture: Matthew 19:25-26 When the disciples heard this, they were greatly astonished and asked, “Who then can be saved?” Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.”

Observations: Hard for a rich man… Who then can be? If possessions hinder, if riches hinder entry to the kingdom – where does that leave us? We who are physical beings, living in this physical world where our 5 senses rule? Where does that leave us? It leaves us in desperate need of what only God can do. The only way any of us has hope is through the saving work of Christ on the cross. Salvation is completely a work of God – He is our only hope – with Him this is possible! However, we should not ignore the message of the Rich Young Ruler – our possessions cannot be more important than our God – or we are at risk of missing the kingdom for stuff!!

Application: I must trust completely & only in Christ for salvation/entry into the kingdom! I must keep my God as first in my heart & life – not my stuff!

Prayer: Father, help me. Apart from you – I don’t stand a chance of heaven. Remind me to honor & value you and your kingdom above everything on this earth!

May 1 Reading: 1 Chronicles 14-15; Psalm 132; Matthew 18

 

 

 

Scripture: 1 Chronicles 15:22 Kenaniah the head Levite was in charge of the singing; that was his responsibility because he was skillful at it.

Observations: The Levite placed in charge of singing before the Ark (hence before the presence) of the Lord was evidently selected for this task, this leadership role, because of his skill. Could we assume it is biblical, even intelligent to have people doing what they’re skilled at? Could it be this is more important than tenure or relations? Does this mean we aren’t being unbiblical or ungraceful when we evaluate skill in relation to roles & responsibilities?

Application: Skill matters. This may be easier said & understood than applied in the context of the local church. It seems there are other considerations. Now, grated there are considerations of attitude, walk with God, Spirit control, etc. Skill is most certainly not the only issue, but this makes it obvious that it is an appropriate biblical criteria. Duh!

Prayer: Father, give me the wisdom and courage to use your biblical standards in your church. Amen!

April 30 Reading: 2 Samuel 6; 1 Chronicles 13; Psalm 63; Matthew 17

 

 

 

Scripture: 2 Samuel 6:5  David and the whole house of Israel were celebrating with all their might before the Lord, with songs and with harps, lyres, tambourines, sistrums and cymbals.
Observations:  The passion of their worship is amazing! It would seem that they put is to shame. Our worship before the Lord is often fairly passionless. It was a celebration! Can we call what we do a celebration? I wonder – How does God feel about our seemingly heartless worship?
Application:  How should I be different today because of what I’ve read? I should be convicted by my passionless worship. I need to celebrate before the Lord – from my heart – with all my might! Wow!
Prayer:  Father, help me. Forgive me! My worship has too often been with some small portion of my might & strength. Help me! I want to celebrate before you from my heart. I want to lead your people in this manner! Amen.

April 28 Reading: 2 Samuel 3; 1 Chronicles 12; Matthew 15

 

 

 

Scripture: Matthew 15:8 These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.

Observations: The religious leaders and people of Jesus’ day were great rule keepers. They were score keepers. They were great at checking to see if people were doing/obeying all the right rules. Outwardly they really seemed to have it all together. But Jesus says it was all lip service. If my religion isn’t a matter of the heart – then my worship is in vain. If my talk doesn’t come from the heart it is pointless and empty.

Application: I must continually check my heart. My actions must come from a heart for my God. My life & religion must come from my heart. The condition, attitude, and motivations of my heart need continual monitoring.

Prayer: Father, help me check my heart. Search me & try me. See if there is anything in my heart that is wrong. I want my outward actions and my heart to match. Amen.

April 27 Reading: 2 Samuel 2; 1 Chronicles 11; Psalm 142; Matthew 14

Sorry about the gap and for taking so long to post the past few days.  My bad!  Sorry to post so many days at once!

 

 

 

Scripture:  Matthew 14:29-30 Come, he said, then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and beginning to sink, cried out, Lord, save me!It would seem that Jesus likes to invite us to walk with Him. Sometimes that will require great trust, seeing past fear, past the storms, past all the reasons it won’t work, past all the reasons I can’t. It means great trust in the one who walks on the waves, the storm and the problems. It will require that I fix my eyes on Jesus – the author and perfecter of my faith. Keeping focused on Him and not on the storm, the waves and the reasons it won’t work. Wrong focus brings fear & sinking! But even then the Lord is mighty to save!I must get out of the comfort of the boat (albeit a sinking boat!) and walk toward Jesus today. It is imperative! I must keep my eyes fixed on Jesus. He is my strength! I must not focus on the waves! This day I walk on the storm toward Jesus!Father, help me! I am weak and easily distracted. Help me keep getting out of the boat! Keep my focus on Jesus! Help Me!

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April 22 Reading: 1 Sam 25-26; Ps 63; Matt 9

Scripture:  Psalms 63:7 (NIV) 7 Because you are my help, I sing in the shadow of your wings.

Observations:  How many times does the Scripture talk about God being our help?  Ever present, the one we run to, our place of protection, our refuge in time of trouble, our strong tower…  Because of His protection we can sing in times of trouble – not because we like trouble, but because in the battle He is our shelter & strength.  A song in my heart while under attack – that’s it!

 

Application:  I need to continually run to my shelter.  I must abide in the shelter & shadow of His wings!  He is my shelter – strength & my song.  I will run to Him daily, especially in times of trouble.

 

Prayer:  Father, help me always run to you!  Help me seek your shelter.  I can’t fight this on my own.  I can’t keep a song in my heart on my own.  I will rest in this shelter, Lord.  Amen!

April 21 Reading: 1 Samuel 24; 1 Chr 8; Ps 57-58; Mt 8

I confess that I really wanted to write on Psalm 57:1 or 57:4, but it seems God spoke from this passage more – and wanted me thinking in this direction…

Scripture:  Matthew 8:21-22 (NIV) 21 Another disciple said to him, “Lord, first let me go and bury my father.” 22 But Jesus told him, “Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead.”

Observations:  Wow!  Jesus needed to read “How To Win Friends and Influence People.”  Someone needs to tell Him that he can be gentle and challenge people.  That’s cold.  Let the dead bury dead.  It seems that Jesus didn’t fear challenging people to follow Him with abandon.  Are you in or are you out?  Decide.  Are you serious about following Jesus or is it a convenience issue?

I find myself challenging people to take the next step toward becoming that fully devoted follower of Christ.  Sure a journey begins with one step, but is my challenge weak?  I know, I’m not Jesus, so I should be careful.  But still, the verse strikes me today.

 

Application:  First, it occurs to me that I need to be sure that I am following Jesus with abandon.  Am I completely His?  Second, I need to be sure I’m not watering down the cost of discipleship.  Following Jesus is supposed to COST!  God forbid that I paint something else.

 

Prayer:  Father, help me continually check my level of surrender.  Am I sold out to you?  Also, help me challenge people to a complete surrender to you.  May I never soft sell being a disciple!  Amen.

 

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